THE FOUR AGREEMENTS

By: Don Miguel Ruiz

Book Overview

• Genre: Self-Help / Spirituality

• Quick Synopsis (No Spoilers):The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz is a transformative guide based on ancient Toltec wisdom. The book reveals four simple yet powerful principles—agreements you can make with yourself—to break free from self-limiting beliefs and create a life of freedom, happiness, and love. These agreements serve as a spiritual compass to help readers live with authenticity and inner peace.

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Why Read This Book?

This book offers timeless wisdom in a way that’s easy to understand and apply to daily life. Don Miguel Ruiz distills complex spiritual teachings into practical steps that empower readers to let go of fear, judgment, and negativity. Whether you’re seeking personal growth, improved relationships, or a deeper sense of purpose, this book delivers insights that can lead to lasting transformation.

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Gems

• Be impeccable with your word—speak with integrity and use your words to spread truth and love.

• Don’t take anything personally—what others say and do is a reflection of them, not you.

• Don’t make assumptions—ask questions and communicate clearly to avoid misunderstandings.

• Always do your best—your best may change from day to day, but giving your all brings freedom.

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Discussion Starters

• Which of the four agreements do you find most challenging to practice, and why?

• How has applying these agreements changed your perspective on relationships and self-talk?

• Do you believe societal expectations make it harder to live by these principles?

• How does this book’s spiritual approach resonate with (or differ from) your own beliefs?

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Challenge Questions

• Share a moment in your life where practicing one of these agreements made a difference.

• If you could add a “fifth agreement,” what would it be and why?

• Do you think these principles are universally applicable, or do they require adaptation based on culture and context?

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Have you read The Four Agreements? Drop your biggest takeaway or a principle you’re actively working on in the comments below!